7 Strategic Ways to Speak His Language
Do you hear the words that are coming out of my mouth?
Often times, when men speak, it truly sounds like they’re speaking Greek (or some form of alien lingo from their mother planet).
It's no secret that men and women are polar opposites when it comes to communication. But if you want to learn all the ways to speak his language, then there are a few things you can do to ensure he hears you (and help you understand the words coming out of his mouth, too).
Want to understand what attracts men to women? Then let’s dig into the best dating relationship advice around on how to seduce a man with words.
These seven easy steps will have you speaking (and understanding) his “man language” in no time at all...maybe even today!
So, here we go.
What? It’s true! While this sounds like a funny tip when we’re supposed to be learning ways to speak his language, first, you must learn to be a good student (kind of like in Karate Kid).
One of the reasons men and women don't understand each other is because they simply don't take the time to listen to one another. If you want to know what attracts men to women, the best thing you can do is close your mouth and open your ears (and mind).
You’ll truly be amazed what “Greek words” you can pick up when you actually listen (not to mention the major brownie points you’ll rack up, too)!
Fire Up Those Common Interests
Commonalities unite couples!
If you happen to be one of those rare women that loves all things sports, then it's probably easier for you than it is for most women. But, if you're like the millions out there who don't want to fake the love of the game, that doesn't mean that you and your man are doomed when it comes to common interests.
Whether it's music, food, or philosophy, there has to be something that you two both share a passion for. Find his “hot topic” that you are well versed in, and watch the sparks fly.
The two of you will be using the same lingo faster than you thought.
Ramp Up Your Body Language
Use what mama gave ya! While men aren't extremely perceptive when it comes the subtle hints, body language is a language that transcends the gap of all human interactions... especially if your body is provocatively dressed (Hey, we all know it helps – I just said what we’re all thinking)!
The use of standard body language is something that almost any man can pick up on and a useful tool for communicating your desires.
When it comes to what attracts men to women, it's as simple as setting your “leaning-in-and-touching-his-arm” trap and luring him in. He’ll take the bait every time!
It’s All About Him
Ok, well not all the time, but it’s a great way to start!
One of the best ways to speak his language is to talk about the topic he's probably most interested in: himself. It's become all too common for women to hog the conversational airways talking about only themselves, their routines, their likes and dislikes, etc.
While it's good to share a little something about yourself, make sure that you're learning an equal amount about him. By allowing him to open up about himself, you will play the part of a sexy, bilingual translator, who speaks his language and intrigues him to no end.
The phrase, “I don’t know. Where do you wanna go?” is overused by women everywhere.
Come on…you know you’ve said it before. If you've been in the relationship for some time and are still seeking ways to speak his language, one of the best things you could possibly do is use the element of surprise: say something that he wouldn't expect you to say!
Perhaps suggest that he goes out with the guys or watches the game while you whip up his favorite snack, or head out with the girls to give him some time to work on his truck.
By saying things you know he wants to hear (but never thought he would in a million years), you will be speaking a language that melts his heart!
Harness the Fun Factor
There’s a “U” in fun, so start using it! Fun and excitement are the epitome and overall foundation of how to speak "man."
If you're the kind of woman that will go out with him and have some wings and a pitcher of beer or surprise him with court-side tickets to the biggest basketball game, then you're already speaking a language you didn't even know that you understood.
Master the basics of being a fun, spirited woman because it’s what every man wants. Men don’t speak the dialects of “boring” or “griping.”
So, start bringing the fun, and you’ll see his ears perk right up!
Use Your Bedroom Voice
That’s right. I said it! Another element that breaks right through the man/woman language barrier is the ability to turn him on simply by having a sexy tone in your voice.
By suggesting fun things the two of you can do in the bedroom, kissing his neck, whispering in his ear, surprising him with a new trick, or simply asking if he wants to retire for "play time” in the middle of the day, you will learn rather quickly that the language barrier is easily penetrable (be good – I know what you’re thinking)!
That’s it, ladies! No more Greek. It’s time to find ways to speak his language…today!
All you really have to do is pay attention and make a little effort. While men are certainly from Mars, it doesn't mean that we can't peaceably coexist with them and master their language.
So, the next time his words come out sounding like alien lingo, just remember that with these tips in your spaceship, you can speak a little “extraterrestrial” yourself!
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